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Take Heart.

 

There are certain times in your life that you just know beyond the shadow of a doubt that God’s hand was in that situation. When you felt like you were drowning, barely keeping your head above water, you can confidently say “Yes! I know He was right there with me”. You look back and see the different pieces of the puzzle that were once scattered all over but now fit perfectly together in something very beautiful.

 

take heart I am sharing my story on my friend Darcy’s blog~Message in a Mason Jar as a part of her Take Heart series. Darcy is an amazing writer who I am always encouraged by with her heartfelt posts. On Tuesdays during the series, she’ll invite you to link up with your own Take Heart story based on the theme of the week (1- Growing a Family, 2- Romance, 3- Kinship/Community, and 4- Self-Care/Wholeness). On Thursdays, along with the story shared, we’ll offer fun and thoughtful giveaways that will encourage you to take heart in your own struggles. Go check it out and read the rest of my story!

Praying For Your Man.

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Today I have the privilege of telling you about a wonderful book I have been reading and then even better I get to give TWO of these awesome books away to YOU! That’s right. But first let’s talk about this book and how I am convinced it is changing my marriage…

In October I had the opportunity to go a Christian women’s blogging conference called Allume. I was able to hear several great authors and bloggers speak. One of those was Kathi Lipp who is the author of several books. At Allume she shared with us about her new book Praying God’s Word for Your Husband. I enjoyed hearing Kathi speak because one she was down to earth, two she spoke from her heart and three she was witty. I was pleased to find out that her book is written in the same manner.

This is a book you can read cover to cover or jump right in depending on the topic you want to focus on. Each chapter identifies a common feeling or situation a man commonly faces i.e. finances, worry, job, inadequacy, finances. I appreciate that the chapter starts with real insights from Kathi and other women experience different aspects of their husbands. It’s comforting to me to know that most husbands and wives are dealing with the same issues. Each chapter lists several verses that correlate with the topic with a short prayer following the verse. So right there you have a verse and a prayer to pray over your husband. It is that simple.

I pray for my husband but not how I want to. I’ll be honest sometimes my prayers are a little flat, a little stale. A lot left to be desired you could say. But then I started reading this book and I have learned what a crucial force my prayers can be in my husbands life. I have learned that it’s more than a blanket prayer in the morning and when I think of him throughout the day but it is specifically praying God’s Word over him and the details of his life. I have learned that when I don’t understand my husband and how he is feeling, prayer can go beyond that indifference. Lastly, I have learned the more I pray for my husband the closer I feel to him.

Seriously it comes down to this…

If you aren’t praying for your husband, then who is?

I know that God is using this book in our marriage. He is changing it for the better and in a sense changing our family. I would be so happy to give YOU a copy of this book so you can see how God wants you to pray for your husband. Leave a comment and tell me why you would love to read this book. TWO lucky winners will be chosen and announced Friday, February 8. Comments will be closed Thursday at midnight.

***Cant’ wait till Friday to see if you won? Click HERE and get your own copy now! ***

 

5 on friday.

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1. Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. This week I did minimal decorating on the mantel. As usual, I went with what I had around the house. I cut up some old stationary into hearts and wrapped some twine around the robbin’s egg blue (I’m obsessed with this color) mason jars. Tucked the hearts in for a simple but colorful look. I searched through my fabric scraps and set aside any pink, purple and red fabrics. I cut a bunch of strips of fabric and then tied them in knots to some twine. Nothing too technical here, friends. I cut out some hearts from red burlap and used clothes pins I made last Valentines Day to attach them to the garland. There you have it!

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2. Do you know what this is? It is a T-SHIRT rug!  I can’t believe I have taken so long to share this fabulous gift with you. This is my birthday gift from my awesome, super special friend Jenni. I have eye-spied these pretty little things on Pinterest and just love them! Jenni know this, she’s a great listener. This rug is so special because it is made out of tshirts. Me, Jenni and tshirts have a close bond with the many scarves we have made. This rug is made out of all the scraps. I joke (kind of, but not really) that no one is allowed to step on it but me. I love it so much!

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3. Mr. Barela and I went out on a hot date on Monday night. We went to an event downtown Indy. We wore our fancy shoes….Like. A. Boss.

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4. I posted this pic on my Instagram feed this week. This is a shot of the prayer calendar I use daily for the kids. Each day there is something to pray for. I also use one for Brian. I LOVE using these calendars. It keeps me accountable and it is simple enough that I remember it throughout the day. Several people ask where I got them so I thought I would share. It’s a FREE download from my friend Kat’s blog. This is just ONE of the many great resources she has.

A Mothers Prayer Calendar

Praying Daily For Your Husband

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5. And last but not least, I mentioned on Monday I would be hosting my first ever giveaway next week on February 4. I am excited to be able to give TWO readers this book: Praying God’s Word for Your Husband. I had the opportunity to hear the author speak in October at Allume. She was so funny and I loved hearing from her heart how God has led her to pray diligently for her husband. I was challenged by what she said. I am excited to share more about the book with you on Monday and open up the give away! So get ready and don’t forget to come back!

See you all Monday!

Blood, Sweat and Tears.

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I am on this adventure of dreaming big, God-sized dreaming if you will. Each and every Tuesday I am here sharing with you my next steps in my journey. So here we go!

My dream is to create a space (online and in real life) where women, specifically moms can set, work through and achieve fitness goals. 

Today I want to share a time when I took positive steps to move forward in life. It’s not a surprise but the first thing that comes to mind is training for a race. I had just had the girls and our son was two. Life was crazy, a blur and honestly I don’t remember much of that first year. The days just kind of ran together. I knew I needed to somehow carve out a little bit of me time. A time where no one was talking to me, pulling at me, touching me in anyway. For my sanity and safety of my family I needed to get back to running ASAP. At my six week post pregnancy check up I was given the green light. That afternoon I couldn’t get out of the door fast enough. That first run was awful. I had not run in months and the last 8 weeks of my pregnancy I was a beached whale on the couch. My body wiggled and jiggled in places that I didn’t even know could and I thought my lungs were going to explode. BUT I LOVED IT! I felt like “me” again. Then and there I decided I need a goal to keep me running even with 3 little people at home needing lots of attention. Easily enough there was a local half marathon that I had done before in six months. Done. The goal was set.

Those six months were very hard because as you can imagine my body had taken on a whole new form when I housed two little girls inside of me. It was work to keep going when I looked and felt so different. Trying to fit in runs in the morning when the girls needed to be fed every 2-3 hours was a challenge. Sometimes, the run was cut short or it just didn’t happen. But I knew it was not about what happened on race day, it was the process that God was taking me through during the training. 

When I crossed the finished line on race day it was not my greatest time by any means but a huge success in my mind. I crossed the finish line with hands up, tears in my eyes and a full heart. I did it! 

I am taking that experience with me on this God-sized dream journey. I am choosing to remember it’s more about the process than perfection. There will be obstacles, I won’t get it perfect and I know it will be hard at times. There may be blood, sweat and tears. But it will be worth it. I will grow, learn and hopefully change for the better. I will persevere, all the while clinging to His wisdom and guidance.

Can you think of a time when you took action steps to move forward in your life? What did that look like? How are you using that experience to go after the dreams you are pursuing today?

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You said it.

 

Yes. Yes. Yes. The kind of family that I dream of doesn’t just happen. It comes through a lot of trial and error. It comes through a lot of prayer and a lot grace. It comes through tears, laughter, learning from my mistakes and getting on my knees. It comes through me being purposeful with my days. Not letting them slip through my fingers but choosing wisely how each day will go.

So are you being purposeful with your day or are you just letting it happen before you? You have a choice. YOU have a part in making that family you dream about. Why not start now?

****Announcement! I will be doing my first giveaway ONE WEEK from today. On February 4 two readers will win a book that I have recently added to my “Must Read” list. Stayed tuned for more details and don’t forget to check back in next Monday! ****

 

5 on friday.

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This is the 5 on friday the funnies edition.

Here are some cute things the kids have said the last week that have made me laugh. Hope you get a a laugh or two and enjoy your Friday!

1. Theia: Mom do you think Santa wears big read boxers? I think he does because his favorite color is red so I’m sure even his underwear is red.

2. Theia: I think God feels squishy, do you?

3. Mason speaking of his teacher: Mom, she expects me to be perfect everyday and I just can’t do that. I need at least one day off.

4. Me: How long have you been awake?
Kaia: Ummm, we’ve been awake since the time we got up.
Well that clears it up.

5. Mom, do you smell our fartness? (yes, we say fart in our house) I turn around to see both girls waving the their hands toward me. We are pushing our fartness to you because we both farted. Laughing hysterically.

And a bonus because this is too funny not to share.

You know you have no food in the house when one of your 5 year olds says:
Mom what are we doing today besides going to the grocery?

And the other one says:
Did we make it to payday yet?

Happy Friday friends! We are off to the grocery!

 

 

God-sized Dream with God-sized Encouragers

 

Well hello! Welcome to Tuesday where I give you a little update on my God-sized Dream. Are you wondering what I am talking? Are you thinking to yourself: “What is she dreaming about?” “Who’s team is she on?” “What is she rambling about?”

All good questions.

You can check out this post and this post where I give you the low down on being a part of  Holly Gerth’s God-sized Dream Team. So far it’s been just about great! One of the best parts have been the team of women I am dreaming alongside. These people have got it going and they are not messing around! I have really enjoyed reading about what they are dreaming about, what they are trusting God for and how they are going after it! It makes me want to pursue my dream even more.

I have been encouraged by many, even many of you (thank you thank you) but especially Esther who is paired up with me to be my encourager and then there is Laura who I get to encourage. I also have my in real life friend Jenni who I do life with and checks  in with me about my dream. All these girls are on my side and that feels good. When you are going out on my limb you need to know someone has got your back.

Dreaming is not meant to do alone. Buddy system, friends! Pair up, get that team behind you to keep you going when you want to stop, to pray for you when you feel out of your mind, to give you a high five and maybe even a chest bump when the time is right. I am so thankful to have some friends in my corner. And I am thankful to be encouraging others along way as well.

So here’s your questions:

Who’s on your team of encouragers? Who are YOU encouraging?

5 on friday.

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Words for the day.

 

1. New for 2013 I started writing one thing that happened during the day. It could be simple, funny, a hard thing, blessing whatever. Just one thing that stands out to me. My goal is to keep this up all year long then come 2014 I will go back to the January 1 card and start over. I think it will be fun to go back and remember the different things that happened on that day. Who knows if I am really on the ball, over the year the cards will be full of all kinds of things! When I am old and grey (or grey-er) the kids will one day look over the cards and get a snapshot of our days long ago. Haha…that just all sounds kind of funny but it could be cool so I’m going with it.

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2. Did a little skateboarding decorating in Mase’s room last week. The old skateboards were give to me by the local skate shop and BOOM we made two shelves and a coat rack. Love it. Happy boy and happy mom because his room finally has some sort of direction and style. I’m sure I was the only bothered by the lack of decor but it’s all good now!

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3. I eye spied in my neighbors yard some pallets the other day. You know how I love myself some pallets! So like any normal, upstanding citizen I hopped the fence and helped myself. Haha, I kid. I kid. I asked first then I hopped the fence and picked out 3 pallets: 1 big one and 2 small ones. I have never seen “baby” pallets! They are too cute! I have some ideas rolling around in my head so you’ll just have to wait and see!

A "sleepover" with a friend minus the sleeping part. Dinner, play, jammies and a movie then home to sleep in your own bed:)

4. You may remember this post where I told you were implementing Lego jars for behavior. Much to my surprise we have stuck with it and even better we have seen a change in the kids behavior. They are highly motivated by Legos, I tell you! The girls recently filled their jars for the first time, Mase is getting close. For Kaia’s reward she chose to have a friend over for dinner and movie in their jammies. Theia chose ice cream with Daddy. In the last minute she begged for Kaia to come along. I guess when you’re a twin you get to enjoy double rewards.

Such lovely ladies I have accompanying me today.

5. Really this picture says it all. Life with my girls is always an adventure.

Have a one of a kind weekend friends! Don’t miss out, there are good things to come of it I’m sure!

 

You said it!

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As a mom there are lots of little things to be done throughout the day that I necessarily don’t want to stop and do sometimes:

  • getting stuck food out of little teeth
  • getting another dress out of the closet when there are 15 on the floor
  • fixing another chocolate milk because the first one was spilt
  • combing out tangly hair with tears and screams
  • practicing spelling words and math facts
  • playing another game of Candyland
  • folding more laundry
  • drawing another unicorn (even though I am getting pretty good at them!)

You know, the list goes on. But being a mom really isn’t about me. It’s about choosing them over myself. Not all the time but often. More yes than no. For when I do, I know I am developing patience, humility and a love that mirrors His. And that is what I want. If I am learning these characteristics through having to stop with my own agenda and serve my kids. Then I say yes, even when I don’t really want to. I know I want them to see these qualities in me more than hearing my “No” or look of “Really?”

How are you developing your character as a mom? What do your kids see within you?